Heyyo... It's the confident blogWith a new real story of a teenager
A story which gives moral lesson to all the those teenagers who suffer with same problems, who actually fight against the world to get comfortable theirselves, who actually deal with every little thing which is new to them...
Before starting with this story ... I just wanted to make you aware about something which is going in each one's life and you all know about it still we don't talk about it much, we don't open ourselves so much in front of anyone, even with parents because of the generation gap... Misunderstandings may occur..
◍So the thing (the problem) I was talking about was Depression..
If I asked a question to you..
◍Are you happy at this very moment of your life?... Many would say yeah am just living going with the flow..
Handling the situations... Or some would say I don't know what's going in my life better to just live the way it is....
●Now talking about depression... Why can't we see that the base of every problem now-a-days is depression...
Being depressed on small problems and when bigger problem arises you can't handle and then we all know what we do๐
***so bringing this topic in front I would like to share a short story of a teenage girl aged 17 ... And do let me know how much the story is true?
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(The character's name and everything about her is changed to respect her privacy)
Living the way it is...
A day comes in every one's life where you have to decide what next? This question first comes to every person when he/she is clearing high school and have to decide about the future... What are their interests, their weakpoints, and by thinking about all this we get nervous, we don't know actually why this happens. Between all this there was a girl named Caren, who thought understanding and being in this world is just a piece of cake... She didn't knew much about the outside world...it's problems... She dealt with her own situations easily and, she was going well in her teenage life . But one day suddenly her mom asked her a question..
What are you gonna do next? How would you sustain you living in future? She said Caren... You aren't intelligent, not a hardworking person, you don't like studies,, how are you gonna live in future against this world which is full of competitors....
These lines ran in her mind... That day she stopped staying happy because she was stressed out... There was nothing she could do because she wasn't capable of doing anything... By looking at her legs she felt for the first time that this world is not for her... Or she is not made to live in this world full of people who are selfish..by sitting on wheelchair for lifetime seemed easy but after facing those problems it didn't seemed to..
Caren decided to be the way she was. A wheelchair person who needs someone's support cannot achieve anything... She lost in herself.. Began staying alone.She didn't knew what to do.Her caretaker saw Caren loosing herself everyday her situation became more critical.It was one fine winter morning she said to her mom that she wanted to be a writer because that's best and would suit her. She can write and write by being on wheelchair and nobody will have any problem. By thinking that She will become comfortable, she started writing, wrote a few stories, few poems but was tired of the way she presented herself. She wanted to be more... She wanted to prove everyone that Caren can do anything. Caren didn't wanted to live the way it was for everyone... Being a teenager she wanted to live as children of her age group ..
The thought of being physically disabled made her so depressed that she lost all the warmth she had before and all the confidence in herself faded...
She stopped writing, it didn't suited her personality..
Caren got sick of staying like this..
She didn't wanted to live and wished for becoming normal... Sometimes we don't get what we want and same happened with Caren... A year passed and she became so ungrateful, lost all her warmth, and began thinking of how to end everything . She didn't knew that this world has many things for her. She lost contact from everyone. Didn't felt like to talk to her mom because Caren thought she would not understand her problem and would scold her for thinking so much.... At the end she just lost her control over life and decided to end everything.
A day when all her sorrows her problems came to an end and she ended poisoning herself. Being physically challenged wasn't in her hand she was born without sensations and nobody could ever helped her in this situation... Her mom was shocked to see all this as she wasn't aware of what her child is facing... Whatever happened just took few moments and nobody could stop her....
By ending this real short story I would like to again mention something.. Just like Caren we all have problems in our life , nobody is happy the way they live.... It totally depends upon how you handle yourself....we all just need to find a person in ourself who is stronger than anyone in this world.... Never be alone... You aren't meant to be alone there are people around you who care for you...
Now this story seems to have more details in it but I couldn't add as I wasn't supposed to share everything...
At this point after imagining the situation in front of your eyes I know you will start thinking about your problems... Many have thought for once till now that I should end because we all face many things which we don't find comfortable...
◍Again a question for you
Is ending everything the solution for each problem? Are you so weak that you cannot handle yourself and do stuffs like ending yourself.??
Getting a life is not easy but ending it is the easiest job and many do it while being depressed...
Students loose their control because they wasn't able to study... I mean is this not a very small reason to take a step which is huge... You have many things to do... You aren't alone if you look around you will find more people who actually cares for you...
Don't end anything.... Raise your hopes more till you achieve what you want just fight and that makes you strong.... You won't achieve anything after death ... So why to end such a beautiful life.... The most found reason for commiting suicide is the person was dealing with depression whatever the reason behind this but the whole and sole reason is depression...
Let's end this... Try to be an extrovert help people around you on your social media make them feel that they are special whosoever it may be...help others and even you won't stay alone after this:;)...
Taking off now
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