Sunday, 7 March 2021

Story time being REALISTIC ❤

Heyyo... It's the confident blog
With a new real story of a teenager
A story which gives moral lesson to all the those teenagers who suffer with same problems, who actually fight against the world to get comfortable theirselves, who actually deal with every little thing which is new to them... 

Before starting with this story ... I just wanted to make you aware about something which is going in each one's life and you all know about it still we don't talk about it much, we don't open ourselves so much in front of anyone, even with parents because of the generation gap... Misunderstandings may occur.. 

◍So the thing (the problem) I was talking about was Depression.. 
If I asked a question to you.. 
◍Are you happy at this very moment of your life?... Many would say yeah am just living going with the flow.. 
Handling the situations... Or some would say I don't know what's going in my life better to just live the way it is.... 

●Now talking about depression... Why can't we see that the base of every problem now-a-days is depression... 
Being depressed on small problems and when bigger problem arises you can't handle and then we all know what we do๐Ÿ˜Œ
***so bringing this topic in front I would like to share a short story of a teenage girl aged 17 ... And do let me know how much the story is true? 
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(The character's name and everything about her is changed to respect her privacy) 


Living the way it is... 

A day comes in every one's life where you have to decide what next? This question first comes to every person when he/she is clearing high school and have to decide about the future... What are their interests, their weakpoints, and by thinking about all this we get nervous, we don't know actually why this happens. Between all this there was a girl named Caren, who thought understanding and being in this world is just a piece of cake... She didn't knew much about the outside world...it's problems... She dealt with her own situations easily and, she was going well in her teenage life . But one day suddenly her mom asked her a question.. 
What are you gonna do next? How would you sustain you living in future?  She said Caren... You aren't intelligent, not a hardworking person, you don't like studies,, how are you gonna live in future against this world which is full of competitors.... 
These lines ran in her mind... That day she stopped staying happy because she was stressed out... There was nothing she could do because she wasn't capable of doing anything... By looking at her legs she felt for the first time that this world is not for her... Or she is not made to live in this world full of people who are selfish..by sitting on wheelchair for lifetime seemed easy but after facing those problems it didn't seemed to.. 

Caren decided to be the way she was. A wheelchair person who needs someone's support cannot achieve anything... She lost in herself.. Began staying alone.She didn't knew what to do.Her caretaker saw Caren loosing herself everyday her situation became more critical.It was one fine winter morning she said to her mom that she wanted to be a writer because that's best and would suit her. She can write and write by being on wheelchair and nobody will have any problem. By thinking that She will become comfortable, she started writing, wrote a few stories, few poems but was tired of the way she presented herself. She wanted to be more... She wanted to prove everyone that Caren can do anything. Caren didn't wanted to live the way it was for everyone... Being a teenager she wanted to live as children of her age group .. 
The thought of being physically disabled made her so depressed that she lost all the warmth she had before and all the confidence in herself faded... 
She stopped writing, it didn't suited her personality.. 
Caren got sick of staying like this.. 
She didn't wanted to live and wished for becoming normal... Sometimes we don't get what we want and same happened with Caren... A year passed and she became so ungrateful, lost all her warmth, and began thinking of how to end everything . She didn't knew that this world has many things for her. She lost contact from everyone. Didn't felt like to talk to her mom because Caren thought she would not understand her problem and would scold her for thinking so much.... At the end she just lost her control over life and decided to end everything. 
A day when all her sorrows her problems came to an end and she ended poisoning herself. Being physically challenged wasn't in her hand she was born without sensations and nobody could ever helped her in this situation... Her mom was shocked to see all this as she wasn't aware of what her child is facing... Whatever happened just took few moments and nobody could stop her.... 
By ending this real short story I would like to again mention something.. Just like Caren we all have problems in our life , nobody is happy the way they live.... It totally depends upon how you handle yourself....we all just need to find a person in ourself who is stronger than anyone in this world.... Never be alone... You aren't meant to be alone there are people around you who care for you... 
Now this story seems to have more details in it but I couldn't add as I wasn't supposed to share everything... 
At this point after imagining the situation in front of your eyes I know you will start thinking about your problems... Many have thought for once till now that I should end because we all face many things which we don't find comfortable... 
◍Again a question for you
Is ending everything the solution for each problem? Are you so weak that you cannot handle yourself and do stuffs like ending yourself.?? 
Getting a life is not easy but ending it is the easiest job and many do it while being depressed... 
Students loose their control because they wasn't able to study... I mean is this not a very small reason to take a step which is huge... You have many things to do... You aren't alone if you look around you will find more people who actually cares for you... 
Don't end anything.... Raise your hopes more till you achieve what you want just fight and that makes you strong.... You won't achieve anything after death ... So why to end such a beautiful life.... The  most found reason for commiting suicide is the person was dealing with depression whatever the reason behind this but the whole and sole reason is depression... 
Let's end this... Try to be an extrovert help people around you on your social media make them feel that they are special whosoever it may be...help others and even you won't stay alone after this:;)... 
Taking off now
๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—thanks for reading ... 
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Wednesday, 24 February 2021

Interesting Facts For you #2

Hello everyone ๐Ÿ˜‡
Welcome to my blog... 
Here's some more interesting facts for you๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ณ

1)  If you travelled at the speed of light, you could reach pluto in 4 hours๐Ÿง... (I would like to try this,..without dying though๐Ÿ˜‚) 

2)  Ketchup was originally sold as medicine. 

3)  Early golf balls were stuffed with bird feathers!! 

4)  Coca-cola was originally ๐Ÿ’šgreen๐Ÿ˜•!! 

5)  A snail can sleep for three years๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜ด๐Ÿ˜ช... 

6)  Camels ๐Ÿซ have three eyelids๐Ÿ‘€
(If you know why then let me know in the comment section below.. ๐Ÿ˜) 

That's all for today๐Ÿ˜ƒ I hope u enjoyed reading these amazing mind blowing facts which even I didn't knew abt๐Ÿ˜ฏ๐Ÿ˜ฑ!!!! 
Well... Another set of interesting facts soon!... 


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Thursday, 18 February 2021

To DO LIST?? ๐Ÿค”

Hello, :)
Am back again with a very important thing to discuss about๐Ÿ˜€
The TO-DO LIST

How to be punctual in making this? 
How to follow it? 
How to achieve anything with it's help?? 

So let's start,๐Ÿ˜€ 

According to studies,  it's been proved that if you want to do anything or complete something you have started with but being lazy to do so then one of the techniques used for accomplishing any task is the TO-DO LIST
Sounds interesting but how to follow this? Is a big question as many have concluded they couldn't finish after making a list of things to do๐Ÿ˜Œ!!! 

1) To start making to do lists every day first you need is similar type of papers with some patterns , you can use sticky notes and paste them on table calendars or anywhere in front of your eye so that whenever you are tired your eyes fall on them and you realize that i still have a lot more stuffs to do and get back to work... 

2) When you are making this kind of list make sure you write the purpose of completing those tasks, this will motivate you to finish what you have started easily and you won't get tired because nothing is greater than being motivated, nothing can  stop you if you are determined.. 

3) Check out your capability the first week or two-three days, how much you can actually do in a day and what are your abilities?? Because if you just wrote everything on the list but huge stuffs which requires more than a day then this won't work you will get bored and stop following your list soon.. 

4) Do important stuffs before, just finish those things/work first which are boring requires more time and are important and then when you get tired you will be left with the easier ones and that will definitely help you in finishing daily tasks more easily.. 

5) Everyday in you routine add 5 minutes time for making this list because many have claimed that they don't have time, they couldn't make these lists everyday and hence cannot follow properly... 
So be punctual, stay determined of what you are doing...

6) After you finish with a day's work don't forget to reward your self.. This will make you feel energized for the next day and you will work more efficiently;) 

Reward in sense for boys it may be relaxing by going for a walk spending time with friends and family or playing video games for an hour... For girls it may be spending time with family and friends, or just spend time on yourself... Or if you wanted to eat something you are craving for something,.. You can just have it after finishing all your work ... 
And am sure after this you will have a good night's sleep๐Ÿ˜ด.. 



That's all for this time๐Ÿ˜€

I hope this will help you.... 

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Have a good day:)!! 

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Wednesday, 10 February 2021

NEET 2021 HOW TO MAKE NOTES??

Making notes has always been need of the hour as before exams we all need something presented in short to cover everything in less time...
Many students don't know how to make notes for any competitive exam and hence end up without revision....
Here are some useful points for how to make notes and I'll provide few notes of biology to look and make one urself..

Important points to remember..

1) Don't copy from others...
Make ur own notes as u will get to study more from ur own notes.. U will understand in a better way and it's more productive..

2) While making keep sure it should fit in small spaces which will make it easier to revise and looks easy to understand the next time..
Try to fit in one-two pages..

3) HIGHLIGHT IMPORTANT POINTS.. 
this is the most important thing while making notes keep detailing everything u write so it becomes easy for your eye to fine some topics you are searching for.. 
4) Make some tempting short videos on yourself while making notes... 
This feels awkward but who's gonna see your video ..only you and the time you watch it you will remember each thing you wrote and studied.. 

5) KEEP ADDING OR EDITING YOUR NOTES BY STUDYING NEW CONCEPTS 
 I'll share some pictures that will make it clear that how to make notes... 





That's all for this time... I hope this helps you in your study pattern for productive studying.... For more such interesting and informative stuffs follow
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Saturday, 21 November 2020

Interesting Facts!!

1) A whale's vomit is the most expensive thing as it is long lasting in perfumes!!!!!!!๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ง

2) Ants do not sleep๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•because of the absence of pineal gland!!!!!!!๐Ÿ˜…

3) 6 year old children laugh at an average of 300 times a day , while adults laugh at an average of 15 to 100 times a day!!!!!!!!!๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿ™‚

4) The length of your  thumb ๐Ÿ‘is equal to length of your nose๐Ÿ‘ƒ?!! ๐Ÿง๐Ÿค”

5) Smallest pineal gland is found in dogs!!๐Ÿถ๐Ÿฉ๐Ÿ˜ฒ




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Friday, 20 November 2020

**STORYTIME :- being realistic**

Over the past few years it's been observed that it is being difficult to analyse ourselves.. 
It is easier to judge and criticise others instead of doing the same with our own selves.. ๐Ÿ˜‡
A thought strucked my eyes on it when I was going through some posts... 
I would like to share a story to describe it and share the thought at last.... If u liked my story or want to share your own story you can share in the comment section๐Ÿ™‚.. 
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   A girl named Radha was dealing with depression. Being a teenager she knew all her priorities and what her parents expected from her. Radha was a bright child indeed, but something made her lose grades that year which made her depressed. Off course, grades are being important than knowledge these days. Her parents scolded, criticised her as she never got such grades in school. Her inner self began destroying her. 
        One day, a girl named Meera who stayed next to her saw Radha sitting on a bench in sadness. She knew about Radha's score and what she must be dealing with after facing criticism. Meera decided to help her, she started sharing her memories and stories while playing, Radha and Meera soon became good friends.. Still Radha seemed to remain unhappy evertime they met. Meera started studying with her and noticed that Radha still had the capability of rising up. Radha soon started taking interest in studies as she learned the other ways of doing it and remembering topics faster.
        Radha understood that there are ways to find success and become excellent. Meera suddenly wrote  a thought on Radha's wall which says, "Behind the cloud the sun is still shining."Radha became strong and started moving on.She corrected her inner self and gradually her grades rosed up... ๐Ÿ˜€
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That was a happy ending๐Ÿ˜Š.. This short story have some points with deeper meanings in today's world... If you find them or want me to have a debate on it's ideology let me know... ✌✌
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And the thought which strucked my eyes.. Is.. 
Thank you๐Ÿ˜‡!!! 

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